What Is Tantric Massage?
A tantric massage is a caring touch filled with attention and presence, without a standard form and predetermined outcome. Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erogenous zones can also be touched. Naturally, constantly with regard for (shared) limits. Tantra massage is an energetic massage where sexual energy likewise gets attention. A tantra massage occurs on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection in between massage provider and receiver. Mentally, physically, at heart level and often even at the depths of body and soul. The function of a tantric massage is to "bring" the receiver in (the direction of) a natural, happy state of being. The effect is often a wonderful physical, psychological well-being. Normally, the receiver is extremely relaxed, wonderfully flowing and ending up well in the heart, and in higher spheres.
Tantric Massage is everything about Caring touch
A tantric massage is a loving touch complete of attention and presence. Tantra massage is offered from the heart. Although most touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is really love that touches. The hands of the provider are connected with his/her heart. The touch is caring, constantly concentrated on the well-being of the receiver. The recipient is also present, and gets active and also feels (eventually) from the heart. Be loving!
Filled with attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch full of attention and presence. Do not look around or being hectic with something else, no, your complete attention is on providing or receiving the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, fixed patterns are in fact out of the question.
A tantric massage isn't about a predetermined outcome
A tantric massage will always be various. You never ever understand how it will turn out. It is not the strategy or the wanted series of rubbing that is essential, it has to do with exactly what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most require at the moment? Exactly what is excellent for her/him? Love understands what to do, enjoy constantly has a suitable response. And so the massage will be precisely that what is needed. Enough is that the provider exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own plan, you can't "do" it.
Tantric massages for that reason often take an extremely surprising course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in happiness.
The best ways to get the best from your tantric massage
Always with respect to limits
We understood it for a long period of time, of course, but considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have actually shown up in the world of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "clients". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver always must be guaranteed. Loving attunement always comes.
Set clear limits in advance
Everyone (except when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is likewise necessary (check out the post on guarding limits. Think in advance (both as provider and receiver) what your limits are. Make sure there is a proper consumption, and a good preparation (also with your lover/massage partner). Set clear boundaries beforehand: about psychological boundaries, as well as make sure for clarity about physical boundaries. It is a misconception that a tantric massage need to constantly be naked, nonsense. With clothes on is likewise entirely okay (though hard to work with oil then). It is also a mistaken belief that a tantric massage must be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have given/received lots of tantric massages only on the head. In addition, actually each cell is sensuous, but you will be surprised.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation freely
Triggering and releasing the flow of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. Tantra massage is an energetic massage in which sexual energy likewise gets attention. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. Obviously, constantly with respect for (mutual) borders. When activating life energy, sexual energy plays an essential function again. In tantra massage we play with the activation of standard/ sexual/ emotional/ passionate/ love/ production/ intuitive energy.
Focused on the natural ecstatic state of being
There is a discussion going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life aimed at growing in love and consciousness. As far as we are concerned, tantra massage is one of them.
Usually resulting in a fantastic physical, mental well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is usually great, sometimes delicious. We, for that reason, welcome you to fully enjoy getting ánd providing a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't?
There are lots of types of massage. Naturally, all massages have specific practices and techniques in typical. Yet there is a huge distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (focused on relaxation).
* Sports massage (concentrated on the muscles).
* Sensual massage (aimed at enjoyment satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (aimed at recovery).
Relaxation is a vital part of tantric massage, however of a completely various order than relaxation massage Why? Well because you are actually very energetic during/after the massage. You do not fall asleep (unless you are extremely tired), you are extremely alert and mindful! A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. If it gets stuck in sexual research or sexual fulfillment, we would call it different. Tantra massage is definitely not a treatment! It's a type of style these days to see tantra massage as a therapy, but therapy is an occupation apart. Tantra massage certainly has healing results, but that is not an end in itself.
The basics of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive explanation, see the post on the basics of tantric massage. In summary, the following fundamentals stand apart:
Tantra massage pointers-- before you start
* Produce a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done quickly on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide good conditions (physically, but also mentally).
* Explain arrangements!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage pointers-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Constantly keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is need complimentary, do not push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Don't only use your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Enjoy!
* Use your senses.
* Give feedback (pleasure sounds?).
* Integrate in integration (rest) moments.
Some masseurs are more/mainly concerned with what they themselves find pleasant, enjoyable, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your very own "needs", keep away from your own concerns and above all ... do not aim to require anything. Nothing needs to be done, absolutely nothing is required! Once again, don't attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are dissatisfied when someone falls asleep. You might not be waiting on an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no objective. No desired result. It is what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage pointers-- after the massage.
* Take enough time to procedure, to let the massage settle.
* Take some time to exchange your experiences.
* Realize that a tantric massage can have a result for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not instantly go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 important tantra massage ideas (insights/rules).
* Do not work to a goal. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it normally is but there is no pressure for you to perform, this has to do with letting that energy circulation.
* Respect borders, set clear limits beforehand. Our masseuses are mainly really open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work however they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the wishes of the recipient in mind, of course. However, understand that it can end up in a different way.
* It is constantly an energetic massage. Start with the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the whole body. Being excited is typical and desirable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are extremely crucial! A lot can come up.
* Look out to restored freezing minutes. Prevent limits original site from being crossed once again.
* Action by step becoming freer ... Growing trust ... fine. However beware: no sex! Practice makes best. Enjoying the renewed balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. enjoyment noises) and provide integration moments (just doing absolutely nothing).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual satisfaction, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not discharge, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we indicate do not hurry to the weather ending, hold it, remain in the moment, let that sexual energy develop and flood your entire body.
Possible impacts of tantric massage.
Gives peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you from your head. A massage that brings peace and relaxation to your body. You will be calm and unwinded (but you will not fall asleep). During/after the massage it ends up being peaceful in your head (often totally empty).
Brings your life energy into motion.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. Your body armor becomes softer, thinner or even disappears. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a potential healing effect. It is possible that blockages, psychological injuries pertain to the surface area. There might be an emotional release, including physical reactions such as shaking, crying, shocks. Even though tantra massage is not the same as healing, this release may recover some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You become more loving, you discover exactly what it is like to enjoy yourself. You experience that whatever, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that gives a splendidly liberating and deeply pleased feeling.
You will feel comfortable in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy implies that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
In brief, tantric massage is ...
* A loving touch.
* Filled with attention and presence.
* The entire body takes part.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic form, without predefined result.
* With regard to (mutual) borders.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, happy state of being of the recipient.
* Normally leading to a fantastic physical, psychological well-being (of both).